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Old 07-Jun-2011, 17:52
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About a week and a half ago my GF and I had sex for the second time; I'm eighteen, she's seventeen. But. because I was just getting into this (read: formerly forever alone) I couldn't keep it up inside her. But, I still fucked for just a few seconds, with no cum.

Now, two nights ago, she forgot to take her birth control until many hours after she normally would. That day was the day she normally begins her period, but only had a little spotting -- no flow.

Of course, this means that she thinks pregnancy is a possibility.

Everything in my life would be ruined if she is pregnant.

I keep reminding myself that all signs point to no pregnancy:

I didn't come.
I have never released pre-ejaculate, so that shouldn't be a worry.
She's been spotting, as I said.

I found this all out yesterday, and haven't been able to do shit since; I hardly slept, didn't make breakfast... all I've been able to eat was a small amount of food, and even then I felt sick.

I can say I honestly have never been so fearful in my life.

tl;dr my gf might be pregnant, but probably isn't -- even though, im still prolapsing fear
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Old 07-Jun-2011, 18:29
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Most evident question: Were you wearing a condom?
And if so did you leave a bit of space at the tip?

And she is spotting, if she were to be pregnant she wouldn't be bleeding at all.
Oh and just because she didn't take her birth control pill two days later it shouldn't matter.
Hmm sperm can life up to 5 days in a womans vagina.

But why not just to be sure you get a brand name pregnancy test?
If so then you can get an abortion.
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Old 07-Jun-2011, 18:33
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I didn't wear a condom this time. I didn't keep it up/in any longer than 20 seconds. She took birth control on the proper day, just this Sunday, only many hours later than normal.
I've also heard that bleeding can occur from fertilization, though. I haven't asked her to get a test yet, but this is only the second day that we've been worried about it.
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Old 07-Jun-2011, 20:35
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Old 07-Jun-2011, 22:25
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Im sorry man. And not to fan the flames of fear, but you always have precum when you're doing such things. Always, and it has about an equal chance of impregnating someone as actual semen, since it is still sperm.

With that out of the way, i think you'll be fine. I mean if you couldn't keep it up its not likely there was precum unless you were REALLY horny beforehand. I guess always wear a condom but if she was taking her birth control properly you should be fine.

Idk what id do if i got my girlfriend pregnant. I really hope and am confident you guys will be fine. Good luck.

Edit: but yes get a test by a trusted brand within the week and you'll have a quicker time to relief/more time to plan an abortion if necessary.

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Old 08-Jun-2011, 09:12
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Im sorry man. And not to fan the flames of fear, but you always have precum when you're doing such things. Always, and it has about an equal chance of impregnating someone as actual semen, since it is still sperm.

With that out of the way, i think you'll be fine. I mean if you couldn't keep it up its not likely there was precum unless you were REALLY horny beforehand. I guess always wear a condom but if she was taking her birth control properly you should be fine.

Idk what id do if i got my girlfriend pregnant. I really hope and am confident you guys will be fine. Good luck.

Edit: but yes get a test by a trusted brand within the week and you'll have a quicker time to relief/more time to plan an abortion if necessary.
Like I said, in all the years of being horny, I've never had precum. I also wasn't crazy horny at the time.

She's getting a test today, she told her mom. Whether or not the test is positive, she's also going to the doctor.

Her mom and her agreed that abortion and adoption are not an option, though.
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Oh okay, good and you're going about it the right way.

But no abortion? Are they religious...? And no adoption? Are they masochists? No one is ready to have a child at that age group. Well, actually, how old are you?
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Oh okay, good and you're going about it the right way.

But no abortion? Are they religious...? And no adoption? Are they masochists? No one is ready to have a child at that age group. Well, actually, how old are you?
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Old 08-Jun-2011, 10:23
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Thanks emo:P

Anyway, too young to raise a child. Im sure you agree but its her choice I guess. Good luck, keep us updated but im sure you'll be fine
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Old 08-Jun-2011, 13:28
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The test came back negative, thank God.
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Yes, they're religious. As am I, somewhat. I recognize my religion quite personally, but don't let it rule my life. As such, I would've recommended abortion, but would've realized that it is a bit morally wrong.

She would've been too attached for adoption. I would've been quite attached to it too, despite the fact that my life would've went down the shitter.
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Old 08-Jun-2011, 14:58
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No, actually. I spent the first hour talking to my gf's mom and my dad.
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Old 08-Jun-2011, 16:15
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Did they want to beat your ass?
No, actually. My dad and her mom were very understanding of it. I don't know how well her dad or my mom would, though.
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she ever go to the doctor?
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